Insights: Living with Intent
September 10, 2026
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Across the world there are a range of new years traditions that are adopted by different nationalities to mark the transition from one year to the next.
For instance, in Scotland, the end of the year is called Hogmanay. On this day, the first person to step into a house is thought to bring good fortune - particularly if they are dark haired. In Bologna, Italy, there is a new year’s practice of il Rogo del Vecchione (burning the old man). This involves burning an effigy of an old man which is meant to represent the previous year’s bad luck. In the Philippines it is customary to wear clothing with polkadots on new year’s. This is because the dots are representative of coins and are thought to bring prosperity in the coming year.
Of course our tradition has its own defining rituals associated with Rosh HaShanah - round challot, fish heads, and apples dipped in honey. It is also distinguished by its focus on reflection and introspection as we consider our yearly ‘report card’ and commit to rectifying errors and seeking improvements in the coming year.
Regardless of our religious beliefs and whether one feels an accountability to God, to community, to self, or to a combination of all three, there is something profound in participating in ritual that challenges us to seek honest appraisal and to strive to be our best selves.
I often say that at King David we move to the rhythm of the Jewish calendar. As we walk around the school our senses are overcome with the time of the year - on Fridays we smell the fresh challot when we enter the school buildings and are immediately attuned to a day of Kabbalot Shabbat and to the rounding off of the school week. In the lead up to Pesach, it is the Maror carefully harvested in our Kibbutz classes and provided for our families to support their Sedarim. So too, in the month of Elul we have heard the Shofar on a daily basis which has been building our energy and preparedness for the High Holy days.
This is the sign that the time has come for us to reflect on the nature of our shared life together
At this time of year, I encourage our students, staff, and families to pause and think deeply about our community. We are fortunate to be surrounded by a warm, embracing, and thoughtful environment that strives to make space for every individual while celebrating our common purpose.
The true spirit of Teshuvah (return and self-reflection) requires us not merely to celebrate our strengths, but to examine ourselves with honesty and vulnerability. The High Holy Days present us with this challenge.
It is time to ask ourselves if this warm, inclusive experience is true for everyone in our community. How can we push ourselves further to genuinely embody the values that we aspire towards? Can we consciously create space for new friends, new families, and new connections? Can we bring greater honesty, consistency, and kindness to our everyday interactions? Can we be slower to judge and more open to the diversity of opinion and approach that ultimately strengthens us?
The call of the shofar is an invitation to wake up - to move past automatic routines and choose to live with greater deliberation, openness, and intentionality.
My hope is that each of us finds personal meaning and the inspiration to live with a little more integrity, empathy, and humanity. In doing so, we ensure that our community remains a true place of belonging for all.
Wishing you and your loved ones a sweet, peaceful, and fulfilling year ahead.
Shanah Tovah u'Metukah and G’mar Chatima Tovah.
